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Funerals & Memorials

Funerals and Memorial Services are special occasions for the remembrances of a loved one and the celebration of their life. Pipes and drums can add greatly to the emotional needs and ceremonial requirements of these kinds of services. Equipped with the right selection of tunes, a piper can assist in easing the pain and sorrow felt with the loss of a loved one. The popular gospel air, "Amazing Grace", for example, will undoubtedly evoke loving memories. It has been a cultural tradition for many centuries, particularly in Scotland and Ireland, to have a bagpiper play laments in honor of the departed. This tradition is continued here today in North America among Scots and Irish immigrants and their descendants, and has also become somewhat a tradition for honoring the dedication of duty of all persons of public service, particularly members and former members of the military, fire and police services.
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I differ from other vendors in that I want to create a truly custom experience in honor of your loved one.  Included in all memorial packages is a private meeting with me in person to review all of the details of your event such as dress options and tune assortment. If an in person meeting is not feasible, consultations can be held over the phone or utilizing online forums such as Skype. For musical selection I will provide tunes for you to listen to and select from. I am also more than happy to discuss special requests. I do not have a predetermined limit in regards to the quantity of tunes I can play at the service.

I have been playing memorial services since 2000 and am therefore able to offer tips and suggestions where needed to ensure the functionality of your event. I also have a network of other professional pipers and drummers and so am able to offer options in addition to a single bagpiper. Popular alternatives include a trio with a piper and two drummers or a small band, but I would love to discuss what you have in mind.  On the day of the event, I will arrive punctually, well dressed, and prepared. My instrument, as well as the instruments of any other pipers or drummers, will be tuned to competition standards and all musical arrangements, cues, and timing will be reviewed with the event planner or officiant. I take my performances seriously and will only accept the best.

About Funeral and Memorial Services

When Should the Piper Play?
​I'm typically asked for one or more from the following list:
  • Play as guests arrive.
  • If the casket/urn have not already been placed, process the poll-bearers and casket/urn to the venue.​
  • Play a special selection at some point during the service.
  • Play after military honors and flag folding after the playing of "taps" and presentation by the honor guard.
  • Play during or after a special presentation or ceremony.
  • If flowers are provided to the mourners, the piper often plays while the flowers are being placed.
  • Play during the lowering of the casket or placing of the urn.
  • Play during a dove release.
  • Recess the pall-bearers and casket or urn out of the church or hall.
  • Play at the end of the service as the mourners depart.
  • March away and fade into the distance at an outdoor venue.​
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Before the Service Begins - The structure of most indoor funerals and memorial ceremonies are very similar to outdoor graveside/memorial services. A bagpiper can be used very effectively to greet the mourners arrive to create an air of solemnity and reflection, particularly if mourners are expected to arrive within a fairly short period of time (for instance, 15-20 minutes before a service begins). The amount of time that the piper plays before a service usually depends on whether the service takes place inside a building, or outside such as the  grave-site, a private, home, beach, etc. The piper will generally play for a longer period (usually for 15-20 minutes) before the start of a service at a cemetery chapel or mausoleum. At a grave-site service (which often follows a church or chapel service), the playing time before the service begins is much shorter because the guests generally arrive together. 
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Greeting guests as they arrive and board a vessel for a burial at sea.
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Playing background music as guests arrive.
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The Processional - Unless the casket or urn is placed prior to the service, the piper will play a processional tune as the pall-bearers take the casket from the hearse. The piper will then lead-off the procession, playing to the grave-site or inside the building. In a church setting, the piper may pipe to the front door of the church. After the initial blessing, the piper will again proceed playing, and lead the the pall-bearers and casket up the aisle to the alter. ​
Processional Music
  • Flowers of the Forest. Traditional British Military Funeral March.  More about Flowers of the Forest.  Isla St. Clair singing Flowers of the Forest.
  • The Skye Boat Song. Traditional Scottish Funeral Song about Bonnie Prince Charlie.  More about the Skye Boat Song.  The Skye Boat Song as sung traditionally by The Corries and as adapted for the the TV series "Outlander".
  • Highland Cathedral: Composed by Ulrich Roever and Michael Korb in 1982.  Read more about Highland Cathedral.
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Piper/Drummer Trio begin the service.
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Leading a procession from a beach-side park to the water.
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Procession to a service on the beach.
During the Service - Bagpipe music can be used throughout the service as the family desires.  I am sometimes requested to play a special selection at an appropriate time during the service. I have played a number of times ensemble with a church's pipe-organ, and/or as a prelude to a choral; this combination is quite outstanding in effect. Often there are military honors, flag folding,  dove release, the placing of flowers, lowering of the casket, or other special presentations made during the ceremony. It is appropriate to play a tune either during or after these presentations, depending on etiquette for the specific presentation. 
Ceremony Music
Hymns & Airs
Hymns and traditional slow airs are the most versatile tunes in the repertoire and may be played at any part of the ceremony. For the most impact, I recommend performing a hymn or air immediately after the "closing prayer" and concluding with an additional recessional tune. Many parts of a service may be devoid of music.  I am often requested to to perform before or after eulogies or during communion. ​
  • Amazing Grace. A popular hymn that needs no introduction. Read more about Amazing Grace.
  • Dark Island (Dr. MacKay's Farewell to Creagorry). Composed by Iain MacLachlan and adapted by David Silver for the 60's TV show "Dark Island". More about Dark Island. Dark Island as sung by Mary Duff.​
  • Going Home. Afro-American Spiritual adapted into Dvorak's 9th Symphony and a popular piping tune.  More about Going Home.
Piobaireachd: Laments & Salutes
As an alternative to a hymn or air, it is also appropriate to have a performance of one of the great laments or salutes. This unique type of music is the classical music of the Highland Bagpipes and is called Piobaireachd ("pipe music", pronounced peeb-rock). Many of the pieces date from the 17th or 18th centuries during the baroque period. 
  • ​Lament for Mary MacLeod. One of the finest and most popular piobaireachd.
  • MacCrimmon's Sweetheart. 
  • The Battle of Auldearn No.1 (Excerpt). This excerpt is from a recording session with Lee Whittaker for his song "Conversation".
Service Conclusion, Recessional, and After the Service - After the final prayers or remarks have been made, it is most fitting to perform a hymn, air, or one of the great laments. After this tune, a recessional tune may be played as an exiting tune.  It is then customary to march out of the venue (or away from it in an outdoor setting, fading into the distance). If the remains are present for a traditional indoor funeral, the piper can again lead the pall-bearers and remains back down the aisle and out the door of the venue to the waiting hearse, and continue playing as guests mingle and depart.  If a reception follows the service in a nearby hall, the piper can stand outside near the entrance and play as everyone proceeds to it. 
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"Amazing Grace" at the conclusion of flag ceremony.
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Salute during military honors.
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Playing during the service.
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Staged and waiting to start.
Recessional Music
  • The Minstrel Boy (The Moreen). Traditional Irish Air and patriotic song, as sung by John McCormack and as adapted for the movie "Black Hawk Down".  More about The Minstrel Boy.
  • The Dawning of the Day. Traditional Irish Air. More about The Dawning of the Day.
  • Scotland The Brave. The most famous of all pipe tunes as sung by Robert Wilson. More about Scotland the Brave.
Funeral Procession - It can be a fitting touch to have the pipes, especially when accompanied by drums, to lead the funeral procession to the grave site from an on-site chapel.  The procession from the hearse to the grave site is an opportune time to have the pipes and drums play a slow march or funeral march. 
Bagpiper Darrell Calvillo
(626) 826-0381
​darrellcalvillo@gmail.com
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  • About
  • Services
    • Lessons & Classes
    • Wedding
    • Funerals and Memorials >
      • Top 10 Bagpipe Funeral Songs
      • Los Angeles National Cemetery
      • Riverside National Cemetery
      • Miramar National Cemetery
      • Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery
      • Bakersfield National Cemetery
      • Southern Nevada Veterans Memorial Cemetery
    • Tips on Hiring a Bagpiper
    • Service Locations
  • Reviews
  • Contact & Bookings